In the Francophone world, Françoise Ardi is known as a fashion icon, a strong woman. She is not a femme fatale, but she is definitely a Jeddah. One who stands on her hind legs, one who does not disappear after releasing one hit, and one who dares to sue a production company when necessary. She postponed marriage and children for a career and carried the sign of loneliness with complete confidence, during the separation from her husband.
Despite her “relationship” with loneliness, she freely shares her life’s challenges with the public and has fun along the way. She goes through a spiritual process, dealing with health issues to this day, all with transparency and courage.
Yes, and all of this, ladies and gentlemen, is happening behind her gentleness and graceful restraint.
Outlines for the character of Françoise Ardi
Françoise Hardy (her last name can also be pronounced Hardy), singer-songwriter, was born inParis In 1944, as a baby boomer, her father was absent from home during her childhood. At the age of 17, she took voice lessons, as well as guitar lessons, and shortly after, she signed a recording contract. At first, she had concerns about her career, but a year later, in 1962, she achieved success.
Success came to her with almost surprising ease. She didn't even have to sing in unknown cabarets, but was almost immediately given a stage on television talk shows. After six years of performing, she preferred to stop performing and concentrate on releasing records.
Her songs deal with questions, doubts and anxiety from the torment of unrequited love. She is known to the general public as a singer of Yéyé (a type of pop music in the 60s) and people quickly fall in love with the innocence, modesty, simplicity of the good girl. However, it is not clear what caused her rapid success. Was it her appearance that touched the hearts of so many people? Or was it the spirit of the times, seventeen years after the Second World War, when the French were just crying out for entertainment…?
In any case, in those days, the French valued calm, beauty and a little authenticity. It is likely that they were thirsty for a young, new, promising, radiant star like Françoise Ardi. Her tenderness, her gentle gaze and perhaps the bangs that hid one of her eyes touched them. There were relatively few female singers at that time, and therefore, Ardi stood out. Both a woman and a creator.
She sang calmly, slowly. Her singing was almost rhythmic. She did not surprise with her high tones or the content of the songs. Although she experimented with cinema, she preferred to sing. She always had the desire to sing. Although she had the opportunity to sing in other languages and perform in different countries, her Parisian accent, discretion, elegance and class indicate that she is a true Frenchwoman.
She admitted that she worked under pressure. A perfectionist, she feared that the results would not meet expectations. She was very practical and did not like empty Sundays. She loved noise, work, life.
She didn't marry young, because she didn't want to have children yet. She made agreements with production companies. She motivated herself and wrote for other singers. Modesty seems to be one of the most prominent qualities of the French. And Françoise Hardy does confirm this. When you listen to her, you feel a measured, unobtrusive presence.
Here is an excerpt from one of the many interviews she did, which shows the extent of her modesty.
Do you think you have power?
No, absolutely not. It's ridiculous to see a connection between power and my worthless poems.And don't you think that if the audience cheers, it's a sign that the artist has power over them?
No, he's cheering because he's having fun, that's all.Don't you feel like you have influence over people who applaud you?
Not at all. Maybe a momentary effect, one that has no continuation.Why do you sing statically?
I have slow songs, I prefer them that way, I don't see myself getting excited. I don't dare show my emotions because of stage fright, I'm afraid of looking ridiculous with hand gestures.
The advantage of solitude
Like her father, her husband, Jacques Dutron, was an absentee during much of their married life, which intensified her loneliness. They both lived in a villa, but far apart and communicated by telephone. Her poems depressed him.
It turns out that her mother also lived in solitude. She married her father because of the bourgeois background he came from, not necessarily out of love for him. The lack of love led her to expel him during the war, even though he was under arrest. Incidentally, in French, the word solitude does not necessarily have a negative connotation.
Does loneliness accompany you?
Yes, but it actually inspires me. Of course, one must distinguish between loneliness that causes suffering and loneliness that is chosen. Today, my loneliness is by choice, I am freer. Loneliness allows me to collect myself, to do what I want, mainly to collect myself… Sometimes I feel the need to collect myself, and only when I am alone do I rest.How were you at 18?
I was a reserved, shy girl, embarrassed by every word, naive, idealistic, with strong emotions. To this day, I haven't changed, I'm the same gullible girl. Today, in the end, I realize that my emotions reached a melancholic breaking point back then, and that emotions and love are of no use to me.
In 1962, the song Tous les garçons et les filles appeared, which became famous worldwide and sold about two million copies. The lonely speaker watches with envy the loving couples who wander the street, regrets, but hopes one day to be like them. This song discovered Ardi because it has openness. To talk about feelings takes courage, and Ardi had it. People's hearts go out to those who share what they feel. Since Ardi felt like the speaker in the song, the song is authentic.
Dimension of awareness
Following her studies in astrology, Ardi formed her current beliefs. In her opinion, we humans are here to learn (mostly from mistakes) and to face challenges. She believes in reincarnation, in the meaning behind the word God. When asked if she believed in guardian angels, she replied that there is supposed to be an invisible force that protects us. She believes in love, which is the most important and often comes from people who lacked it in their childhood. As for self-belief? It comes and goes.
When you look at yourself in the mirror in the morning, what do you think about?
I try not to think about it.why?
Because I'm afraid. What I'm afraid of, I avoid.What are you afraid of?
That I will find emptiness within me.
Despite her innocence, she was wise. She knew that success was an illusion. On the one hand, she agreed to sign autographs for fans, but on the other hand, she did not agree to be worshipped.
Have you noticed that you are a symbol for many?
It doesn't bother me at all. I don't think I'm a symbol for people, it's a joke. I don't take it seriously. If I did, it would be terrible. I don't like seeing girls mesmerized by my admiration, it confuses me. What does it mean that they admire me?! That I have to conform to the image they're portraying of me?! There's no way I'm going to conform to the image!
More songs about loneliness
Le premier bonheur du jour 1963
The speaker in the poem takes solace in the sights of nature, such as the caressing sun, the chirping bird, the blowing sea breeze, etc. The reason for this is that the happiness that her lover brings her disappears when he leaves for work in the morning and a gloomy silence settles in. The poem expresses the expectation that her lover will return soon because without him she is lonely.
My friend the rose 1964
The song expresses sorrow over the passing of actress Sylvia Lopez, whose life was cut short by leukemia. The speaker compares her friend to Shoshana. She cannot digest her sudden death. A contradiction arises: on the one hand, she agrees that we are all vulnerable, but on the other hand, her friend is Shoshana. In her dream, her friend's soul dances and smiles at her.
How to say goodbye 1968
So how does a couple break up without it hurting? They linger, take the time to explain to each other, and wipe away their tears with a handkerchief.
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Her medical condition
In 2004, she was diagnosed with lymphoma, but it was not aggressive. Ten years later, the symptoms worsened. In 2015, the singer became weak and thin, had difficulty walking, and fell, which led to hospitalization. Despite being on her deathbed, she managed to recover and in early 2016, her son Thomas reported that she was recovering. However, in 2019, she revealed that the cancer had returned and that the treatment had left her deaf in one ear, preventing her from singing. Thus, her musical career came to an end. Today, at the age of 76, her days are apparently numbered.
Ardi, the star of the French singer, recounted her memories in the book l'Amour fou. It is written about her that her face is sealed, like that of people who have traveled a lot without believing in change, and who have loved a lot without giving up their privacy. As if in a dream, she smiles slowly. This smile adds a kind of sadness to her distant face that suits the fog, but is fragile under the sun.
The book's title is the same as one of her latest poems, which can be heard here:
With an airy voice, a slim silhouette, and a full beauty, Ardi has touched several generations, since her first success with Tous les garçons et les filles at the age of 18. Ardi remains a symbol of freedom despite her loneliness (or perhaps because of it).
* The main photo of the article was taken by Joost Evers.
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